The hubs and I have been buying Tostito Scoops for the past however-long-we’ve-been-buying-them-for out of courtesy for the other. I say “out of courtesy” because we just realized last night that both of us hate them. He always talks about “Scoops” and how awesome they are and I always say “hey let’s get some Scoops” because I think I know how much he loves them and he always agrees because I sound so excited about it (when really I’m just excited about quenching his snack thirst). But what he really means to love are Frito Scoops. NOT Tostito Scoops. Totally different game. Anyway, we both had a really good laugh when I tried to get the last of the salsa out of the bowl with a Scoop and said “I hate these things” and he said “I know, I don’t know why you always want to buy them” and I said “I always want to buy them because you keep talking about how much you love them” and he says “no, I like FRITO scoops” and I’m like “WELL WHY DIDN’T YOU SAY FRITO BECAUSE THESE ARE CALLED SCOOPS TOO???”
And that, folks, is about as argumentative as we’ve ever gotten with each other.
Speaking of marriage…
We’ve recently received a few inquiries for weddings this year which is super exciting and super new to us as a husband and wife photo duo. I’m excited about the prospects because after months of scouring wedding blogs for inspiration and of course having our own magical wedding day, all I could think about was how documenting a wedding is one of the best stories you can ever tell with images. Much like my feelings about being a journalist (what I went to school for) I have many reservations about shooting weddings full-time because it can be a stressful and time-consuming business that doesn’t just take place between the hours of 9-5 on weekdays. I was never a fan of the idea of couples working together because I feel strongly about having a separation in our lives for at least a few hours a day and to be able to have the chance to miss each other, but I can understand how some couples choose to do that and it totally works. And to clarify, Jeff and I work great together, I just don’t want us to ever get in the situation of becoming business partners before husband and wife. But then I read an article about a photographer making $250,000 from shooting around 25 weddings a year and thought, greedily, “well maybe it wouldn’t be that bad.”
Yeah. $250,000 from 25 jobs? Where do I sign? I’ve been doing research on the logic behind pricing wedding packages and quite a few of the examples in this post totally made sense to me. And maybe it will make sense to you too if you’re looking to get into the wedding photo biz.
In other but relevant news, I’m working on a new portfolio site which is basically done, just need to make up my mind with exactly what images I want to include before we make it live. With that said, I’m super excited and looking for cute couples to add to the “love” section on the site which will include both engagements and couples who are happily married and happily dating (because I think it’s good to keep documenting the different stages in a relationship). My new site will have a new url, as will this blog (right now we’re leaning towards huongfralin.com but I have not made the purchase yet) so just a heads up that the three of you who read this will need to change your bookmarks soon. I’ll of course keep you posted as this unfolds.
My wedding website will be completely separate from my portfolio site and that will launch as soon as I get enough content to fill it up. So if you know of anyone who’s getting married soon and hasn’t found a photographer, please feel free to mention my name…I’m available for travel and might even throw in a free photo session for you and yours for the referral :)
So without further adieu, we’re getting ready to veg out on the couch with our favorite Thursday Night NBC sitcoms and our three bags of Tostito Scoops. Yep. I said three.

RICHMOND, VA